I was mad because my husband bought a sample camera

Everything in the house, taking care of the children, he left me alone, ignoring my feelings, and he went to take samples, even shooting nuys.

My husband and I have been married for 16 years, have 2 sons, if counting the time of love is 24 years. When they first fell in love and got married, the husband and wife struggled to raise their children, the salary was only enough if they were frugal, life was still happy. Every day we go to work, we take our children on weekends, sometimes travel a few times a year. I find life so fulfilling, no blame for anything. 5 years ago, her husband bought a modern camera and started a tragedy from here. Every weekend, he took his camera to take a picture, at first he took a photo of a colleague, then came to the sample, now he also follows the tours of the forums to take a sample of 2-3 days and culminates in shooting nuy. The husband and wife cause each other countless times because of this passion of him.

I do not know what the feelings of husbands, do you think we are superheroes, have no passion for what? The passions that cause harm to the family are we ignore, why aren't husbands like that? I am really depressed because if I discovered this passionate husband since falling in love, I would not have agreed to marry him. Thanks to VnExpress message to my husband: "Honey, if you feel your passion is too great, the hobby of seeing the body of a woman not so much of your wife, you should free each other. I will live full of my passion, I don't have to suffer because I have to fight every three times, there are many beautiful things out there, I don't want to bind you and I don't want to I have so much frustration. I'm really depressed, now I just want to take care of making money to support my two children to study well. " Thanks a lot.

Loving
Chi tiết

I have proof that my wife often secretly gives money to my grandmother

I was really sad because my first wife laid her knees over my face, lying like that.

I'm 40 years old, my wife is less than 5 years old, I have two children. We had houses and our economy was not abundant, but it was not bad. I am very clear about money. Previously, the money paid for both sides of my family and my husband and I were both fair and public. Recently my wife has been stealthily giving money to the foreign currency without telling me. I don't regret what my wife did but at least she had to say. Last time I discovered and had enough evidence but did not want to say, then there was a 2nd, 3rd time, the next time I also have enough evidence. What I have to do? Hope you read please help me.

Tung
Chi tiết

Married for nearly 3 years, my wife let me "love" several times

I am afraid that one day I will not be able to control and do foolish things, the results will be worse.

I'm over 30 years old, my wife is 2 years younger. After 8 years of love we moved to marriage. I have a good need for sex, but I've always lived up to the standards and morals so far, don't go beyond what the limits do not allow, not promiscuous, not girls, it should be added that I do not smoke medicine, alcohol or gambling. I find myself a loyal person, very respectful of others, never do things that the opponent does not like or in the form of coercion, paternalism. I know how to cook and like to share housework with my wife. Of course, I am not a rich man, making good money, according to people around me, I "earn enough, there is a little surplus". My family currently has only 2 spouses so it is not a heavy economic problem.

I was judged to be "gentle, too sentimental and sentimental", 8 years we have known each other many times we are going to "eat rice in front of guys", but my wife now always knows how to stop in time, I think. is a good quality (maybe she wants to preserve for her husband). I treasured her and decided to get married even though my wife was clumsy in the housework. Like many other grooms, I am eagerly looking forward to their first wedding night, but my wife is very good at evading and lowering my husband's feelings. The problem also arises from here.

Because of the need and the lack of harmony in bed, we often opaque, quarrel, even in the smallest matters. When the physiological needs are not relieved, plus the pressure of work makes men irritable and uncomfortable like "women to the day". I repeatedly tried to suggest with words and actions to make my wife understand that we need to find a solution to the couple, not the current "fasting cat". I found out that my wife not only did not like and also hated sex, sometimes she pampered me, so I was grateful and grateful to her. I always try to make up for it by sharing housework, preparing rice for my wife from hard work, on the other hand, I find the cause of my wife's "hate love" disease but the wife is always closed, on the contrary, she is also angry. , yelling every time I suggest sharing. I was helpless. Since then I have always been in a mysterious and uncomfortable state, although many times I have found solutions such as: suggesting to my wife by hand, so that nothing is achieved, wife does not like to do.

I don't force anyone, once she protests I won't force it, that's why I have to handle myself. Married about 2 years and 8 months but the number of times "love" of the couple could not count even one hand. Currently, I have been noticed by a colleague and also expressed my feelings many times in a discreet way, and still love my wife, so I avoid her colleagues. Many times collapsed and stressed, I want to free the couple because we both do not have children, not much attachment, but I fear my wife collapsed, unable to withstand, my wife is very fragile and weak . If it continues like this, young people over 30 years old like me are very upset, that is not counting children.

Please give me your opinion, what to do to be able to get along with my wife, or at least alleviate the situation of physiological imbalance. Do I detest seeking prostitutes or other dark services, or should I break up with my wife? Thank you for reading this article.

Pros
Chi tiết

The mother-in-law slandered her husband and her husband for adultery to hide the hidden things

Mother-in-law once committed adultery not only twice but twice, causing debt to her husband's family twice.

The mother-in-law was too resigned when her father-in-law persecuted her 60
I am the daughter-in-law in the article: My mother-in-law is too resigned to be persecuted by my father-in-law. If I had known why he did it, I wouldn't have written on the previous article. I really appreciate the comments from readers. Among the many comments, I was most impressed by a friend who said: You will never understand the feelings of those who always go to other people's mistakes. I think that's the key point and the reason why turning a husband from a person when awake is so kind to people, loving his children, working hard, to being a man when he's drunk bouncing, spiteful. The mother-in-law is the root cause of this story, it is getting worse to this day.

The father-in-law is generous, selfless, taking the debt to have a spacious car and house like today. The fact that my mother-in-law had an affair, I saw a text message from her husband asking the other man to let go of my family, but in response to that message, "Please tell your mother to stop first." This story has been happening for nearly 10 years, every village knows, even my sister-in-law's mother knows. As of now, it's over or not I'm not sure. The wrong people often cover up and make up stories to cover up their mistakes and shortcomings. She made up the story of my husband having an affair.

My cousin-in-law, my mother-in-law, frequented a few years ago, who intends to bait my father-in-law. Whether they have an affair or not and what level I do not know, everything is only told from the mouth of the mother-in-law, but the evidence is not. Yesterday, the mother-in-law reported the loss of a red bra. She said she saw her daughter-in-law wear (this person's house is near my home). The mother-in-law said the father-in-law took her bra for the girl to wear. Husband and wife are shocked by the insult of honor and self-respect. My husband and I asked Mom to give evidence. Mom said she spent two hours looking for it but couldn't find any evidence. I told my mom not to lose my wife because of losing clothes.

I used to sell all the gold jewelry rings of dowry to pay debts to my mother-in-law (she used to trick me once to borrow gold and told me not to let my husband know, but he knew and asked her to return it), mortgage and borrowed money from relatives to pay debts to the husband's family. I don't know why there are women like mother-in-law, happy family who don't like it, like making up stories to make noise in the house. While my mother was not the first one, her father-in-law ignored and forgave. He really loves his mother, taking care of his mother better than my husband takes care of me. Even when he ate rice, he told us what moms liked to eat.

Making money in the house but my father does not keep money, all money my mother is the manager and holder, in his purse never had more than 100 thousand, try to ask if such a man has an affair is not? How can I help Mom get rid of that thought? I'm scared, it's the mother who doesn't want to get out.

Thuy
Chi tiết

I helped a colleague who was told something bad about my back

She always said thank you but said she was mean to me, saying that I had bad sentences.

I have worked at this company for 5 years, my female colleague has worked for 2 years, my boss has worked for 3 years. The boss is often on business, everything at the company is through the secretary. My colleague and I just worked on each other. The other day we felt uncomfortable about the way the other party worked, but I did not do it and did it even though it was her duty. I was told a three-sided meeting from my boss because he heard that I said something bad about her. I remember, do it for now but now was said badly. I presented the whole thing, not knowing if your boss believed it or not, because at that time, the boss was busy visiting customers, and we would meet again tomorrow to close the matter. What do I have to do now?

Vân
Chi tiết

Husband seeking beautiful girls confided while still happy with me

I am completely innocent when I return to be your wife.

I am 32 years old, every day I read the thoughts of my friends and I think if I ever fall into one of the cases here, I am really confused today, thanks to everyone for advice.

My husband and I are high school classmates, each of them has their own job and each has a lover, sometimes the two of them meet to talk about sadness and joy. Then one day the two parted lovers, came together with understanding and sincere love with empty hands. A cozy wedding took place with the blessings of everyone. Time passed by 7 years, our little boy was 5 years old. I trust him absolutely.

Yesterday did not know how unlucky heaven made me on his profile. I have never done it before. When I entered, I discovered he talked with many girls, mostly beautiful girls, taking sexy pictures. The conversations just stopped at asking and exchanging questions, interested in eating and drinking, asking for the address of the house ..., there was no words of love, nor did we see the exchange of phone numbers, texting and chatting. delete conversation now. That night I could not sleep, wondering if I had done anything wrong but the answer was no.

I asked him directly if he was lacking in emotions, or did I do anything to disappoint him. The answer I received was "Just talking like that, no matter what, trust me." Is this the seed for out-streamers? What should I do? Should I change myself to be sexy like those girls? My appearance is quite good, not bad but of course not as young and fresh as a twenty girl. I kept wondering in my heart, not knowing what to do now.

Red
Chi tiết

Wife likes to watch black web

Yet sometimes the couple lay together, I suggested opening the movie, the wife said she did not like it (I kept pretending to not know).

My wife and I are 34 years old, have a baby boy and have been married for 4 years, a stable job, decent houses. My wife is excellent, both internal and external relations are good, only one thing I do not know whether I should tell my wife or not. My wife and I got along well in sex, but sometimes I went to my wife's phone and showed me a black movie page. After each viewing, my wife just turned off the page but did not know how to turn off the diary.

How should I say now to my wife from embarrassment? To tell the truth, I was very open-minded, it didn't matter much, sometimes I wanted to see it with my wife but she kept pushing me here. Will my wife see if it's alright, please get everyone's opinion.

Hang
Chi tiết

I have no intention of getting my billions back when I have divided my boyfriend

The ability to earn even more than that, part of it was worth the people who had gone through hard times with me.

I split billions with my business boyfriend, hoping that he would be independent 184
I am the author of the article: "I split billions with my business boyfriend to be independent." I read everyone's comments, even read them over and over again. Thanks to everyone who gave me advice and multi-dimensional views on this issue. Once again, I hope that everyone will take some time to read everything I supplement and give me the most objective view.

I am 26 years old, year of the Rooster, people often say that girls of this age are very happy, maybe so I was a little lucky in business. My job has been growing for 4-5 years and my profits have been steadily increasing, I am planning to buy some houses and for rent to create a stable cash flow before I am 30 years old. That said, so that everyone can understand my every step is calculated and this is a sustainable, clean job, without any guarantee. He is 2 years older than me, gentle, hard-working. When I was working part-time job, wherever he took me, I probably forgot how to ride a motorbike now. His lending is due to the acquaintance of his friends, to business people on projects, lacking immediate capital, not killing gangsters.

I used to think that if he didn't make much money, I let him help with his business. I tried everything but the result was still 0. When I arranged the position of customer consultant via computer, he talked and played the game, said a sentence and then finished playing and then returning. I have suggested many times that I do not like the way to work through such speakers, focus on my work, then do whatever I want to do. Many times I realized that he could not be changed, so he arranged for him to deliver goods. The specificity of my goods is quite big and bulky, under the sun of Saigon I cannot accept it. My work is more developed, most delivery by tricycles or trucks. One day, he handed over one or two applications and then played games, talked and shared a lot, but I was not discouraged.

So I just gave him the money he had to expect him to be independent. I once said that if you like games like that, make money with the game, or if you have any passion I support. When I was angry, he went to learn how to sell coffee, restaurants ..., and after only a few months, if I didn't push, everything would be back in the past. When I wrote the previous article, it was really deadlock because there was no one to share. I have very few friends because in the difficult time my friends invited me to go for milk tea or coffee, I refused. I always thought that the money could be eaten for a day, so I always calculated the expenses for myself. With the money I gave you, I really have no intention of getting it back. A few more share wishes to send to the readers. Sincere thanks.

Hang
Chi tiết

Should get married when no longer feel about sex with his girlfriend

Every time I took the initiative, she was elusive, and this situation lasted for more than a year.

I and I have known each other for more than 4 years, I am 28 years old, I am 25 years old. We seldom have conflicts because we both understand each other, generally everything is fine except for that. We are not far apart but the frequency of relationships is very low, about once a month, sometimes more than 2 months. Sometimes I have to handle myself to solve the physiological problem. Now I really don't feel about that to you anymore. We plan to get married in the near future but I'm wondering, will a marriage that is not happy about sex be strong? Hope everybody consulting. Thank you!

Independence
Chi tiết

I like my roommate who can't say it

You cook alone, do not work with me but invite other room friends, not paying attention to me.

I am 25 years old, studying as an engineer in Japan with a one year transfer visa. We rent a whole house, in many people. I was staying with a roommate of the same age as us, we were in bunk beds. I like you but I can't say it because you only like women. My life is always in negative emotions, love but can not express. From the perspective of two roommates, she doesn't consider me a friend even though she doesn't know I'm in love, doesn't know I'm gay.

I am sensitive, living together I know you are selfish, sometimes I am learning you turn on loud music, watch movies and many other things. As for me, I do not think anything about you, so I cannot focus on studying or working part time. Now this side has assigned a house under the company so it cannot be changed or moved. At this rate my future doesn't know where to go anymore. Sometimes I think I don't know what I'm living for. If there is a male and female couple love, why not let me love someone who can speak it out. Is there any way for me not to think about her and study hard? Please help me. Sincere thanks.

Karma
Chi tiết

My husband was very nice when I was not sick and took care of the housework

If unfortunately I am sick, he will easily show his tired attitude when he has to take care of his wife, easily get angry with his children for saying they do not listen.

My husband and I have been married for over 10 years, having all boys and girls. Outsiders look in to see our life very full and admiring but deep down I do not think so. My husband and I knew each other when I graduated from high school, my feet and feet went dry to Saigon. I find my appearance is good, my temper is hot but kind, caring for my family and caring for my children well. Everything in the family is like rice and water, and the education of my children manages one hand. I do office work. My husband was commented gently, loving his wife and children. He is normally very good, but on the condition that I do not go on business, no illness, take care of my children, cook enough rice and water. He was scared when I had to go for a day or two.

My husband is romantic, I previously found him chatting with a girl online and meeting. Then he showed his fault so I forgave. In the process of living together, we disagree quite a lot, he repeatedly said hurt and heavily offended me. Many times I suggest breaking up. He took the initiative to make up, apologized and then considered nothing happened. I love my husband and children so I also ignored the feelings gradually cooled. Recently I know he texted back and forth with his ex, according to him, it was just a texting message, mainly because the other girl was active, nothing. He said he did nothing wrong and I was jealous. I discovered and monitored for 3 weeks but could not read the message because the password was constantly changed. I felt very disappointed and considered divorce.

My husband and I have been married for 11 years but in fact we only shared the first year, the reason is not arguing but because we divide each person to sleep with one child but still in the same room. The other is mainly due to his initiative, and I am not because of the lack of affection. Having experienced so many things, I no longer have feelings for my husband, only consider him as a friend, my brother, completely devoid of love; if you have me, it is okay not to have. I am financially independent so I can take care of 2 children but my husband still loves me and doesn't want to lose my family. People give me advice should I straighten this matter with my husband and both deliver each other or just endure silently?

Huyen
Chi tiết

The perfect father in his eyes has a shady relationship

How can a relationship say: "I miss you" and my father still remembers her red light.

I have a perfect father. In my eyes, dad is a funny person, loves his mother, loves his family. For me, dad is pride. I always show off to my friends, to everyone that I have a great dad. I grew up in that happiness and pride. To you, betraying your family, adultery is the most terrifying thing in the world. I always tell my lover that way. I will never forgive adultery. I wish to have a husband like father. Then I discovered my dad's message with another woman. She told me if my dad was angry when I saw her but she was busy and other.

Reading the text, I cried like crazy, thinking about my mother. I am typing these words with trembling hands. One child discovered how much his father was adultery and pain. I kept crying, my dad went to play the ball, and I felt so panicked and asked me why I was crying. Perhaps you have never cried like that. I left out, right there. I wandered on the road, hoping only a car would crash. I don't want to think about it, so tired. I walked to where my mom was working, sat across from me and cried again. Wait for mom to finish, 2 mother and son go home. I did not say anything, went to bed.

I took my clothes out of the house, told my mom that I went to my friend's house for a week. Now I can't eat and see my father. Every time I think of those messages, I'm exhausted. I can't confide in anyone so I am stuck. Should I text her, who is married? Hope everyone give me advice. Sincere thanks.

Gem
Chi tiết

Husband only likes to flirt with women who leave her husband

Going to any province to work, he would date and flirt with a girl who left her husband.

My husband and I got married for love and have been on the same path for nearly 20 years, my husband works away from home, due to the nature of the work, so this province will be another province, each province works 2 to 3 years. Which province is far away, you will come back once a month, if you come near you, you will come back once a week. He also did not help my mother and children. I work as a salary to support my children, both of them are of school age, I don't depend on him.

He was a man of few words, good-tempered, gentle, no gambling, and drinking alcohol and girls did not have to say because he worked far away. My husband's hobby is different from men, because he likes to flirt with dating girls who have left him. I caught him texting her in love with so many girls. I caught him texting and giving presents and things, but when the couple confronted, he said that men who worked away from home only texted them, nothing to do with the family. Thanks to readers for advice, what to do in this case?

roof
Chi tiết

My husband betrayed me and blamed me for not caring

Now he said he did not go back to them anymore, before just going to the motel with them and not loving him.

I'm 38 years old, married and 2 kids. I go to work regularly to have money to support my family, my children to study, so I am somewhat older than my age. My husband used to go to work in the past, and when I gave birth to my brother, I took care of my children so that I could go to work. The housework and housework are mostly done by me, I just do it again when he is not neat. Life goes by like that, sometimes I'm sad and suddenly compare why their friends are happy, worried by their husbands, not working to make money. Then it occurred to me that God did not give anyone anything so he accepted his current life and went to work as usual.

Now the older children, the husband also works but his salary is small, enough for him to spend and eat is enough, for his wife. I never thought my husband would betray me. Then one day, he gave me a phone number and told to call. I asked whom, he did not say. I thought and called to know it was his girl. They knew each other, he said 3 months. He said that because he was so thirsty, he went away, the other had a husband and children and was not happy. I was curious, or considered his social network but never found anything. For about 3 weeks now, he often doesn't eat meals with his family. After he finished working and finished cooking, my mother and father ate, he said tired, went to coffee or upstairs to check the phone and ate after everyone went to bed. There were a few times he also ate meals together but after 10 pm he went out again until near the morning. I asked, he said go see football.

Going back to work all day tired, then worried about eating and drinking, children finished school, my mother went to sleep, my husband kept watching the phone, when the whole family fell asleep, I went to sleep. One day, then a week, a month passed like that. That's why he said I don't need him so he has to look outside. Should I believe it to be true and accept my return?

Quyen
Chi tiết

My wife has been nagging since I quit my job

Sometimes I say my wife gives me some money to go to coffee or to drink with friends, I will get the answer: "It's free, drinking all the time".

Read the recent confessions related to money, I find my family much more deadlock but there is no workaround. I am in middle age (a little over 50 years old), in Saigon, my children have 2 children but I am not old enough to take care of myself. Previously, I went to work as a salary, so the cost of family activities such as eating, studying, and gratitude ... did not matter much, my wife also went to work but the salary was not high. It wouldn't be a problem if I didn't quit my job due to the merger. After a period of unsuccessful job application (probably because I was an accountant and an older person), I was discouraged, staying home, of course my family lacked income (I have been at home for about 3 years) . My wife 's salary is used for the whole family so it is always stressful, the atmosphere in the family is heavy, the children go home from school to go to that kid's room, there is no interaction in the family.

My wife is no longer the same as before, ready to raise her voice and scold her husband and children for very small, sometimes objective reasons. For example, yesterday my child drove a car and had to pay a fee to pay for medicine, a car had to be repaired, his wife screamed as a poor boy, did not communicate for several days. I said it was an accident and my wife told me why I should defend her. Or like yesterday when I went downstairs to drop my phone, broke the screen to replace it, I received my wife's nagging chorus, I don't know what to say.

I did not go to work, so I realized that I could help my wife and children, such as taking my children to school (children), going to the cooking market, doing housework, but I had never seen the happy expression of my wife. While I was at home, I tried to do some miscellaneous things to increase income but failed, so I was so frustrated at home.

Thinking back to the old days, I was the breadwinner of the family, but how much money made for my wife, then accumulated to buy a house to escape from the boarding house was happier than many people already. Now looking back at myself, my situation, I was bored because I did not know how to solve the family economic problem to be happy, always stressful. My oldest child is in 12th grade, the 10th grade, there's a long way to go. Look forward to the comments of readers.

jar
Chi tiết

Fiancés often watch black movies during working hours

I feel very uneasy because there is no reason to open that movie in the office hours.

I am 20 years old, studied pedagogy, graduated a year, working as a salesman for a software company. I'm 33 years old, my fiancé, as a manager in a technology company. We love each other for a year, both families know and cultivate for the two of us. Talking about the process of love, we are quite suitable about everything: affection, character, hobbies and sex. Both were open, exchanging frankly with each other so there was no argument. He psychologically, know how to care for me, know how to treat people like that, we plan to marry next year.

Then I found out that I was 4 weeks pregnant, we agreed to get married early this year. Recently, I found out that he watched sex movies during work hours (his brother's web browser history looked at the entire office hours), several episodes each time. I asked him, he said good, see, also said I think a lot. Did you discuss or chat sex with someone to watch movies during that hour? I have previously found him chatting like that with other girls and then addressing him and his wife. During those times, he apologized to me, promising not to do so. I love you so I let it, not think anymore. Now his expression so I feel insecure. Will he betray when I finished giving birth?

The more I thought the more pressure, just worried and crying alone. I want to go away to be a single mom, am I taking this issue seriously?

Red
Chi tiết

My wife is upset when I leave a kiss on her neck

I was about to give a solace and receive a slap, it didn't hurt that much but it hurt my heart, really sad.

I am 30 years old, married for 3 years, with a girl of nearly 3 years old, a technical person, working in Ho Chi Minh City. My wife and I belong to the introvert, my wife works in a big corporation. Since the day she raised her salary, she always works hard for work, works much later. Since her salary is double that of technical people like me, the pressure is also high so I will be the one who will take her children to school and have lunch at home. Since then, we have had a few quarrels with each other, maybe because of the introvert, so we never let out a loud voice, we just choose the silence and the cold war starts until I admit defeat.

The time my husband and I got closer was also reduced, I did not drink alcohol so I was quite prosperous, my wife was different, just close to my husband as scheduled once a week and no longer burning as before. She used to say it was an obligation and felt pressure to do it. Two months ago, my baby dreamed of a nightmare and insisted on being in the middle of my parents, refused to sleep separately, my wife was no longer earnestly lying near her husband even though I suggested. I feel the affection of my husband and wife fade away, it seems that the wife no longer respects me. After a close relationship with my wife, I left a mark on my neck and the next morning she was annoyed, hitting me quite hard.

Aside from that, she's still a good, strong woman who doesn't do anything to me, it makes me very uncomfortable because I don't know if I'm really sentimental or selfish. Today, for the first time, I have a good idea about staying apart for a while (why we've been together for nearly 10 years). Thanks to everyone for helping me.

Phong
Chi tiết

Future female lawyer looking for the same person named on the 7 red books

As a future female lawyer, I am willing to love you with my cold head and my warm heart.

To you, my future father Saigon is polluted recently, I sit looking out the white moon window and quietly dream about my Dalat dream, find a suitable mind, build a small homestay on the hillside, raise fish to grow raw vegetables peace of mind for a lifetime. Yet, 25 pots of banh chung and I still haven't found you. Introduce me a little bit: I, although not as beautiful and trendy as many other girls, have a beautiful soul that is second to none.

No need you to be handsome, stylish, just be loyal to me, be with you without being directed to any other girl (or boy). In addition, I need you to know about time, the perception of time, do not let me wait even during any appointment. Whether it's the first time we meet shyly, or the next meeting is passionate. Bro, if you accidentally read these lines, look to me, be the only man named on the 7 red books with me. Love you, who I have not met.

Rachel Chung
Chi tiết